Thursday, October 23, 2008

" The Secret ", what makes a person attractive?

I suppose almost everyone know the book 'the Secret' by Rhonda Byrne. It's so famous and it was one of the book which once got best-sellers, and it's suitble for anyone of different backgrounds, no matter what religion is, how old you are, where you are from.

In the book, a natural laws which is the laws of attraction is mentioned. It teaches us that we must always be positive, because what happens around us is actually what we were thinking before this. That means if you were bad luck today, because previously you must be thinking about something negative. As mentioned in the book, when you think of good things, you'll attract good things, in contrase, if you think of bad things, the same concept, bad things will come to you.

Well, I'm not gonna talk about the law of attraction anyway. I just wanna share something with whoever who read this blog. Today, I have read an article on 'what make a guy attractive'. It sounds funny right? haha. In reality, I believe everyone has come across cases like this 'She's so pretty, what's she doing with a guy like him? yekkkk' Beauty is in the eye of the beholder? apparently so. haha. Usually we determine a person's beauty mostly by his or her physical appearance, hence a person outlook is playing a vital role whether they would or would not be attractive in others' eyes. Well, according to the article, there are 5 types of guys which are attractive.
1)The Funny Man
Take an average looking guy with a great sense of humour. You may not think much of him upon first meeting him but when he's got you in stitches with his funny man routine, you may start to look at him differently. A guy who can make you laugh will definitely earn himself some points.
2)The Charmer
He's okay looking but he could charm an Eskimo into buying a fridge! This guy will have the ladies flocking to him in droves as he makes them feel good about themselves. Whatever he says is dripping with sincerity and he always says the right things. You may have to be wary of this kind of guy but you need a pick-me-up, he's perfect for the job! The charmer is almost always Mr. Popular.
3)The Successful Guy
He's a hard-working man who has made it on his own merits. Aside from the fact that he may capture the attentions of the more materialistic women out there, others will also find his drive and commitment attractive. He has proven that he knows what he wants and he sees it through? What's not to like?
4)The Mysterious Guy
Sometimes you see him around but you don't know much about him. He's friendly enough but he douesn't volunteer much information about himself which leaves you wanting to know more. He is mysterious and intriguing, which makes for a very attractive person indeed.
5)The Confident Man
He swans through the life with an attitude that just oozes confidences. Although he may be arrogant at times, it reflects a guy who knows how to get what he wants. He commands attention when he walks into a room and will never be found trying to blend in with the background
So after understanding the 5 types of guys, which do you think you are? haha. and for girls, which type of guys will you all prefer? Haha. Though there is so many factors that determines how attractive a guy is, but it's still depends on you.

Wednesday, October 22, 2008

Character

Time and tide wait for no man. That's true. I don't have much time left to prepare for my final exams, anyway, at this point, what I can do is to show some right characters and have the right mentality as a matured person, and prove that I have grown up. Though the following 4 weeks will be really really tough for me, and it's always not late to start now, it's too early to be talking of results or TER. It has to be case of concentrating on my revision, not looking to the results I mean what I can do now is try my best, but I am working hard.

By the way, I've learnt the meaning of 'love' from somewhere, to love, you have to accept everything of the one you love, and to give all your best to the one of love. Isn't it simple? Yes, maybe it is to somebody, but it ain't the case to somebody.
Most girls are trying hard to keep fit and try to make themselves to be attractive this is because they are doing their best for the one they love. So guys don't always mind that your gf is fat neither not good enough, but to accept. (I know it sounds stupid, anyway.)

And tonight, Liverpool will face Athelico Madrid in Vicente Calderon. Hopefully, Liverpool can maintain their unbeated record in this season. It's going to be difficult for Liverpool as they are missing Torres because of hamstring problem. Perhaps it's an advantage for Liverpool as Athelico Madrid were losing for the past few matches. But Athelico has the essence of winning, they are good in both flanks with Maxi Rodriguez and Luis Garcia, and their strikers are good, Forlan, Aguero and Sinama-Pongolle. As well as their midfielders Raul Garcia. Anyway, hopefully Liverpool can win the match with their spirit and the characters of the players especially Gerrard, Carragher and Kuyt, count on you now. And also Riera and Keane, it's time for you to prove to the world that you are what Liverpool had been missing - the recipe of winning. Good Luck!

Tuesday, October 21, 2008

Past, Present, Future

Unbelievable, time really passes very fast, when i am adapted to the new environment, and it's going to change soon. Sigh, I really can't imagine the life after this, my exam starts on 3rd of november and ends on 14th november. Just a few weeks more, I'll complete my SAM programme, and next year, I am going to enter a university. Haiz...

During this few weeks, I think of m any things, my past my present and my future.

For the past, I am a bit regret for what i'd done and what i didnt do. Such as, why didnt i study harder for SPM? haha. And why i didnt continue my piano lessons? Sigh. Regrets fill up my past, and the most unforgettable experience is that when i always skipped classes especially Moral and Mathematics to play futsal under the hot sun. If i am not mistaken, Alex, Andrew, Chin, Vinod and co. never 'absent' for futsal. Haha. Though it was stupid but at least i enjoyed it. And the days when all my friends used to stand outside the toilet and look at girls, especially Loon, those time will never come back, at least, it was memorable to me. Anyway, we can still always see leng lui together. Hmm, for the past, i hope i can do something to at least, become better than last time.

For the present, I am regret, as well. Why didn't i give all my best during the beginning of the course? Why didnt't i try my best in the past exams? Why am I so lazy? Sigh again. What i can do now is use the following 2 weeks time(actually less than 2 weeks) to study, and do whatever i can for the final exams. Anyway, Kelvin Chiew, you are my entertainer seriously, I have never met with such a person like you, you're crazy seriously, damn crazy, I can't even get what you're thinking sometimes. And Jack, Jon. Lo, Calvin and Tneh(Asst. Class Rep?) lolz. It's good to know you all, b'cos I like to talk craps and you all like to listen craps. XD Xavier, Posearn, Hengli and JianMeng, you all are sohai la seriously, you're at another level, my craps is no match to you all. I surrender seriously, but I will 'da bau' you all next time when I play futsal with you, though i can't really shoot hard. lolz. So wish all of us good luck in the final exams and all the best!
and now i realize that i've got my direction and what should i do, thanks to the 'someone', anyway, i'll prove to you what i've told you. Time is the proof.

For the future, there is a big question mark. I seriously don't know what should i do after SAM, i'm so confused. Hopefully things go on well and the results i get is the same as what i am expecting. So i am qualified to enter the course(s) i want, but seriously i am not sure what to study just depends la. Hmm, at least, i got my chance to work, finally, i'll work for 3 months before i continue my studies in June. And before i continue my studies, i wanna get a diving license but not driving license(to whom who doesnt have driving license : Tneh, Onn, Sandra) haha! Just kidding. Besides getting diving license, i wanna go for vacation, depends on the time, hopefully i'll get what i want. And also it's time for me to change myself, yeah, i wanna change, there is a reason, and i'm sure you know what it is. Give me some time. My future is still a mystery, but at least i have a dream and i am heading for it. haha

Hmm, the environment around me is constantly changing, i think i have to adapt to this kind of lifestyle, regrets filled up my past and present, but i won't let it happen anymore, i will always try hard to make sure it will never happen anymore...And throughout these years, from the past until present, at least, i have learnt, how to love, seriously. So i've made a wish, i hope my dream can be fulfilled, using my own hands and my belief, hopefully one day in the future, you will know that reason for my decision and you all will know i can change to be better.

UNTITLED

不知名的花儿都开了,
起雾的窗都已经风干,
当你还在烦恼悲伤,
这世界正默默生长,
一定有一个什么地方,
容得下我和你的梦想,
也会受伤但有希望,
对的人在对的地方,
不一定能继续作伴,
难免会感伤,
但我会用自己翅膀努力飞翔!

Monday, October 20, 2008

Saying 'sorry'

'I'm sorry, i didnt mean to do those things.' Human beings always make mistakes or do something wrong, then the best way is to apologize, or say sorry.
I have to admit, throughout the years i've made many mistakes, maybe i was childish i was immatured. Sometimes really think of giving up...but hmm...i know, if i be perservered, might not succeed, BUT if i give up, i'm sure i will fail.

In this world, there are load of things of different definitions. For examples, 'love' - it can mean many things and it has a lot of meanings and definitions. And 'rubbish' - ir can be waste to some of us but it might be useful for some of us also. Actually the definition the value the meaning of something is just depends on how we see it how we judge it, included the words 'mistakes', 'wrong' or 'fault'. I know, i have to make a lot of decisions later, i can't make sure i am right but at least i have to believe i am right.

Well, i have to promise myself, if i do something wrong in the future, i will say 'sorry'. Though it's a simple word, but it can mean a lot, it can teach me a lot, as well as changing many things. In history, some of the wars occured because of both sides refused to apologize. Thus, from that i can see that the power of the word 'sorry'.

For what I had done in the past, and
For whom I had hurt in the past, I am regret. And I'm sorry